Monday, April 28, 2008

Beautiful Msg!!


Last day a Fwd msg popped from my mail box. And i could find something very Beautiful in that. The message is as follows:

•Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room one man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation. Every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window. The man in the other bed began to live for those one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside...The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake.
Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance. As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by.Although the other man couldn't hear the band - he could see it. In his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words. Days and weeks passed. One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away. As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was
comfortable, she left him alone.Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside. He strained to slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed. It faced a blank wall. The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.She said, "Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you."

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Re discovery!!


Long time.... i returned.. to write.. may be the Happyness part came after a long time. But this time the realization goes even stronger...Adversity makes things so easy to learn. All these days confusions had crept into me.. The sole motivation for live was missing.. Everything was so difficult to link to things which would probably make me successful. (success may have different meanings to different people... ), but again it changes from time to time. Actually, realized that success is to retain what i have, whom i love and all. 
Most important things in life go unnoticed while they are with us. We know when they have already left. Repentence may always not be of help, but Realization may be of help. Seeing things through different approaches, makes the biggest of all differences. It did for me. The things which i made... which were destroyed... can be build again by me, in much better ways... pre-requisite is confidence.. after all Tough times will never last, Tough Men would do that... 
Happyness, comes to us in different ways... its all about Realization... 
Thats the total Re-discovery.. for me... atleast :)